Merriam-Webster defines grief as a deep sadness caused especially by someone’s death. This is a simple definition but their is so much more to grief. You can go through the stages of grief, you can talk about it and it is still not enough to fill the missing voids.
Over the years I have chronicled the loss of my parents, younger sister, and best friend. During these years, I have held tight to the pictures and videos that I have with them, I have kept their belongings, but it never seems to be enough. Recently, I was introduced to Patchwork Bear.
I was given the opportunity to work with founder Jennifer Cura. Jennifer listened to my story and knew that she could help me. She was compassionate and understanding I could instantly tell that this was her passion. Patchwork Bear took the clothing from my parents and younger sister and made it into a tangible and beautiful bear that I can hold on to during my times of great grief.
You can tell that how much love and care goes into the making of these items. At times we don’t know what to do for a person that is grieving, this is the perfect gift for that person in your life. The process is one that is so easy. You simply send one to three pieces of clothing. They allow you to pin notes on the clothes with instructions to use. I was able to have them put names on the bear. You then fill out a form and mail it in.
Their goal is to keep memories alive, and what better way to do so than with a memory bear, quilt or another keepsake. It could be a quilt that is made from your child’s clothing, or you might want to create a bear to memorialize your wedding. They can even make keepsakes with team jerseys.
When I received the bear in the mail, I was so touched by the detail in the stitching and I could tell that love and care were put into it. I now have a piece of my parents and sister with me at all times.
I want to thank them for working with me to create this special piece. It means the world to me.
If you have that person in your life that needs a special gift, I recommend Patchwork Bear. It will give them a lifetime of memories.
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